Dhoulmagus
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I'm sick of dealing with them and it's not worth the time and effort to pursue thrm. However, my sex drive is really high. Im better off pulling drunk girls at parties.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is there anyway to become less attracted to women
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sylvester the cat
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Go gay. Women are just effiminate men anyway.
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Why would you want to be less attracted to women?
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Dhoulmagus
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Ya, but finding another is too much effort. It took 4 months of drought before I met my ex gf. I've tried Tinder, bars, and the parties here are full of guys. I'm not approaching random women at a mall either cause that's annoying.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.