BPH
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Did you really revive a 5-year-old thread just to ask where you can find women you can pay for sex?
Dude...
EDIT: You live in Miami...literally walk outside.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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Dude...
EDIT: You live in Miami...literally walk outside.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If it became addictive to you that means it worked, that means you were successful with them.
Share with us what game you used? This board thinks you need no game with these women.
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Re-read the section where I mentioned these services burning a crater in a man's savings. I wouldn't call any habit/compulsions that results in damned near going broke a gainful endeavor
BPH
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Give that up dude...I can't believe you actually said that until @Clockwerk50 linked your reply.
That'd be like saying it takes skill to fish for the salmon that's packaged for you at the grocery store...
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Okay, and the are not horror stories of guys who got into a marriage or relationship and ended up broke?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Fair point on the analogy — escorts are obviously a different dynamic than normal dating.
My point wasn’t that it takes “skill” in the same way as attracting women organically. It’s more that even in that environment, there’s still some level of screening, interaction, and selection going on — it’s not completely frictionless.
That said, I agree it’s on the easier end of the spectrum compared to normal dating. The bigger takeaway from Baron’s post, which I think is more important, is that ease doesn’t equal value. Something can be easy to access and still be a net negative if it leads to dependency or drains your resources.
You see a similar pattern in other areas too — short-term access vs long-term cost.
BPH
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They are on the easier side for EVERYBODY. It is quite literally their job.
I thought talking about this kinda stuff was against the rules. This is a forum about self-improvement and seduction - not the SeekingArrangements subreddit...
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