"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is there anything better?

CantTouchMyStyle

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When the ex-girlfriend comes crawling back showing absolutely no dignity?

Just got a random text, "How are you?"

I send back "good"

She then calls me, starts rambling about her spring break, and then drops a nice gem about how she was seeing some guy and they broke up. (He dumped her ass, just like I did -- or she got bored of him)

I stopped her dead in her tracks, after laughing, told her I didn't have time for this story, good luck.

She has been texting me without me replying for a few hours. About how we need to go get a drink together and catch up.

Nothing gives me a bigger grin than this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just about all of my ex's come back eventually, but usually not for a few months - by which time I have written them off forever.

I usually hold on for the first month or 2 because I know that once I really let go, I'll never like them again.
 

CantTouchMyStyle

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bigneil said:
Just about all of my ex's come back eventually, but usually not for a few months - by which time I have written them off forever.

I usually hold on for the first month or 2 because I know that once I really let go, I'll never like them again.
I was like this for a while.

Now, it's like after a week, I am done.
 

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As fvcked up as it is, I think its one of the best feelings in the world. But even I know that the feeling is only feeding my ego...You feel good when an ex crawls back because it makes you think your such a hot sh!t. One can't let it go to your head all the time...
 
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