"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is there anything better?

CantTouchMyStyle

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When the ex-girlfriend comes crawling back showing absolutely no dignity?

Just got a random text, "How are you?"

I send back "good"

She then calls me, starts rambling about her spring break, and then drops a nice gem about how she was seeing some guy and they broke up. (He dumped her ass, just like I did -- or she got bored of him)

I stopped her dead in her tracks, after laughing, told her I didn't have time for this story, good luck.

She has been texting me without me replying for a few hours. About how we need to go get a drink together and catch up.

Nothing gives me a bigger grin than this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigneil

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Just about all of my ex's come back eventually, but usually not for a few months - by which time I have written them off forever.

I usually hold on for the first month or 2 because I know that once I really let go, I'll never like them again.
 

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bigneil said:
Just about all of my ex's come back eventually, but usually not for a few months - by which time I have written them off forever.

I usually hold on for the first month or 2 because I know that once I really let go, I'll never like them again.
I was like this for a while.

Now, it's like after a week, I am done.
 

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As fvcked up as it is, I think its one of the best feelings in the world. But even I know that the feeling is only feeding my ego...You feel good when an ex crawls back because it makes you think your such a hot sh!t. One can't let it go to your head all the time...
 
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