have you read dozens of books on economics, philosophy, history, science? can you dance, fight, drive motorcycle, swim, ride a horse, shoot well? can you weld, run a lathe and milling machine? Fix cars? Can you guide a woman thru a proper workout/diet regimen? wtf SHOULD she choose you over a hundred other guys, hmmm?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
IS there anything about you?
- Thread starter goundra
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
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Your point is well taken, but women don't care about many of the things you listed. It's all good stuff, but mostly of interest to men.goundra said:
The exceptions in your list are dance, fighting, fitness, and motorcycles. Women do like those things. Even shooting can interest certain girls.
I can dance and am still learning more. I talk about dance to women because it's something most of them can appreciate.
I can run a lathe and milling machine. But I would I never mention it to women. "Hey baby, come back to my place to check out my Bridgeport miller I have running on a rotary phase converter. We can drill and tap some steel plates together tonight."
VladPatton
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Actually yes, yes I can do most of those things. But sadly, professionalism and Casanovaism are two different, separate entities.