have you read dozens of books on economics, philosophy, history, science? can you dance, fight, drive motorcycle, swim, ride a horse, shoot well? can you weld, run a lathe and milling machine? Fix cars? Can you guide a woman thru a proper workout/diet regimen? wtf SHOULD she choose you over a hundred other guys, hmmm?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
IS there anything about you?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mike32ct
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Your point is well taken, but women don't care about many of the things you listed. It's all good stuff, but mostly of interest to men.goundra said:
The exceptions in your list are dance, fighting, fitness, and motorcycles. Women do like those things. Even shooting can interest certain girls.
I can dance and am still learning more. I talk about dance to women because it's something most of them can appreciate.
I can run a lathe and milling machine. But I would I never mention it to women. "Hey baby, come back to my place to check out my Bridgeport miller I have running on a rotary phase converter. We can drill and tap some steel plates together tonight."
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Actually yes, yes I can do most of those things. But sadly, professionalism and Casanovaism are two different, separate entities.