She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Advice: Do homework and stop being dependent on other people to make investment decisions for you. If you can't handle the stock market then invest in a managed mutual fund.ProDJ26 said:So if there's anybody that wants to give me advice I'm all ears.
You want the information to come to you instead of doing a little work searching. How incredibly lazy.ProDJ26 said:Send me a PM
You mean up to 35%. It depends on the person's tax bracket. Also, you're only taxed on the gains and you can write off losses to offset the gains. If you're down $5,000 this year and you're up next year $5,000 you don't pay tax. You can carry your losses forward to reduce any taxable gains.synergy1 said:From what I understand about trading is that commissions, spreads, and taxes erode your profits greatly. I mean 35% is what you get taxed on if you buy/sell and make a profit?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Grease yourself up with peanut butter and enter a kennel full of dogs.allbeef said:I want to be rich by stocks. Could someone please tell me how.
What do you think about POTG, a mining stock? I have no interest in it, just curious of your analysis.Julius_Seizeher said:I am hesitant to recommend companies, but I will give you some general advice.
For starters, you must understand the difference between trading and investing. Trading is the business of holding stocks for a short time and selling them for quick profits, often within a day or two. Professional traders will use technical analysis, stock pumper newsletters, and word of mouth to follow the short-term "momo" of a stock. Investing is buying a stock with the intention to hold it for months or years, based on a strategy that considers macroeconomic factors, viability, and the merit of the company moving forward. I am an investor, I have never bought a stock that I wanted to jump in and out of. I invest based on fundamentals.
One of several reasons that most guys who try to make a go as daytraders fail, is they fail to consider the tax implications of trading stocks. Each transaction is a taxable (or deductable) event, and the taxes are a nightmare. Securities held for less than a year fall under the Short Term Capital Gains rate, which is up to 35%. I think most daytraders get it wrong because they are doing it assbackwards; they are flipping stocks to pay the bills and it just isn't sustainable.
As I said, I do not "trade" stocks, but I am going to take it up. My strategy will be to do all short-term trading inside Roth IRAs, so I will not be hit by the Short Term Cap Gains. Think about it: when you can trade stocks without paying taxes, you can grow your wealth immensely faster. When you sell any stock inside a Roth IRA, you just roll the entire balance into the next investment, without any consideration for taxes. Otherwise, you're getting hit by the STCG tax every time, and who wants that sh!t?
The stocks I hold in my retail account are not inside a Roth IRA, but I intend to hold them for years, so when I do sell, I will only pay the Long Term Cap Gains rate of 15%. I think the best way to build wealth in the stock market is to use both retail accounts and tax shelters (Roth IRA). If you have a 401K at work, by all means take advantage of it, but if you are serious about building wealth you will at least have a Roth IRA outside of work within which you can trade individual stocks and build wealth faster without paying taxes along the way.
I also feel each investor should have a focus on one particular industry. When you educate yourself to know an industry inside and out, you will be in a superior position to ascertain winners from losers within that industry. For me it is the mining industry. When I was first getting into investing, I discovered some junior miners I liked, and I have since become a mining nut. And it's a great time to be buying miners; commodities are booming, the world economy is expanding and miners provide the base materials which societies are built on. I focus on gold, copper, uranium, and potash. I look for startup companies with enormous estimated resources in the ground, because the biggest mining companies in the world (BHP, Vale, Rio Tinto, and Anglo-American) are buying into these high-potential juniors and sending their share prices to the moon. The major will form a Joint Venture with the small company by which the small company gives up a % of the project for funding and the means to make the mine happen. I also follow biotechs, they are more speculative but the winners in biotech can make you a rich man.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If it were that simple, we'd all be rich. See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Efficient-market_hypothesisTortendieb said:Well does it really go up in summer? I have no idea about this particular stock, but since juice always sells better in summer there shouldn't be a big surprise for the investors, thus there shouldn't be a big increase.
I mean, wintersport companies don't lose value just because it's summer either.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.