She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Advice: Do homework and stop being dependent on other people to make investment decisions for you. If you can't handle the stock market then invest in a managed mutual fund.ProDJ26 said:So if there's anybody that wants to give me advice I'm all ears.
You want the information to come to you instead of doing a little work searching. How incredibly lazy.ProDJ26 said:Send me a PM
You mean up to 35%. It depends on the person's tax bracket. Also, you're only taxed on the gains and you can write off losses to offset the gains. If you're down $5,000 this year and you're up next year $5,000 you don't pay tax. You can carry your losses forward to reduce any taxable gains.synergy1 said:From what I understand about trading is that commissions, spreads, and taxes erode your profits greatly. I mean 35% is what you get taxed on if you buy/sell and make a profit?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Grease yourself up with peanut butter and enter a kennel full of dogs.allbeef said:I want to be rich by stocks. Could someone please tell me how.
What do you think about POTG, a mining stock? I have no interest in it, just curious of your analysis.Julius_Seizeher said:I am hesitant to recommend companies, but I will give you some general advice.
For starters, you must understand the difference between trading and investing. Trading is the business of holding stocks for a short time and selling them for quick profits, often within a day or two. Professional traders will use technical analysis, stock pumper newsletters, and word of mouth to follow the short-term "momo" of a stock. Investing is buying a stock with the intention to hold it for months or years, based on a strategy that considers macroeconomic factors, viability, and the merit of the company moving forward. I am an investor, I have never bought a stock that I wanted to jump in and out of. I invest based on fundamentals.
One of several reasons that most guys who try to make a go as daytraders fail, is they fail to consider the tax implications of trading stocks. Each transaction is a taxable (or deductable) event, and the taxes are a nightmare. Securities held for less than a year fall under the Short Term Capital Gains rate, which is up to 35%. I think most daytraders get it wrong because they are doing it assbackwards; they are flipping stocks to pay the bills and it just isn't sustainable.
As I said, I do not "trade" stocks, but I am going to take it up. My strategy will be to do all short-term trading inside Roth IRAs, so I will not be hit by the Short Term Cap Gains. Think about it: when you can trade stocks without paying taxes, you can grow your wealth immensely faster. When you sell any stock inside a Roth IRA, you just roll the entire balance into the next investment, without any consideration for taxes. Otherwise, you're getting hit by the STCG tax every time, and who wants that sh!t?
The stocks I hold in my retail account are not inside a Roth IRA, but I intend to hold them for years, so when I do sell, I will only pay the Long Term Cap Gains rate of 15%. I think the best way to build wealth in the stock market is to use both retail accounts and tax shelters (Roth IRA). If you have a 401K at work, by all means take advantage of it, but if you are serious about building wealth you will at least have a Roth IRA outside of work within which you can trade individual stocks and build wealth faster without paying taxes along the way.
I also feel each investor should have a focus on one particular industry. When you educate yourself to know an industry inside and out, you will be in a superior position to ascertain winners from losers within that industry. For me it is the mining industry. When I was first getting into investing, I discovered some junior miners I liked, and I have since become a mining nut. And it's a great time to be buying miners; commodities are booming, the world economy is expanding and miners provide the base materials which societies are built on. I focus on gold, copper, uranium, and potash. I look for startup companies with enormous estimated resources in the ground, because the biggest mining companies in the world (BHP, Vale, Rio Tinto, and Anglo-American) are buying into these high-potential juniors and sending their share prices to the moon. The major will form a Joint Venture with the small company by which the small company gives up a % of the project for funding and the means to make the mine happen. I also follow biotechs, they are more speculative but the winners in biotech can make you a rich man.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If it were that simple, we'd all be rich. See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Efficient-market_hypothesisTortendieb said:Well does it really go up in summer? I have no idea about this particular stock, but since juice always sells better in summer there shouldn't be a big surprise for the investors, thus there shouldn't be a big increase.
I mean, wintersport companies don't lose value just because it's summer either.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.