Captain Rizz
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Deep dive conversation, but short date. Is the move to simply hail mary a second date?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is there any way to recover from a mediocre/ bad first date?
- Thread starter Captain Rizz
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bingo-Player
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Depends what was bad about it ?
It all massively depends on the context and the females interest in you
As a rule of thumb you really need to do something on the first date which sticks in her head in a good way and preferably makes her \I/ tingle
If it was very boring you could be instantly sent to the freindzone
It all massively depends on the context and the females interest in you
As a rule of thumb you really need to do something on the first date which sticks in her head in a good way and preferably makes her \I/ tingle
If it was very boring you could be instantly sent to the freindzone
Captain Rizz
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It wasn't boring, but I think I sperged out too much about topics I am really opinionated on. I was very strong about philosophy/politics
AureliusMaximus
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No; move on.
(Nothing deep convo needed about this).
There is plenty of phish in the pond.
There is no reason to beat yourself to death for a phish that bite off the phishing line.
taiyuu_otoko
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How did it end?
Solomon
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Unless the woman is highly attracted to you physically no, if you have options or spinning plates you wouldn't worry about this (no shade) regardless charge it to the game
EyeBRollin
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Yes. Do better on the next date. If she accepts.
Dash Riprock
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It's actually good to state your opinion and be somewhat polarizing, even on a first date. Too many guys are overly agreeable and supplicate to the woman because they're afraid to disagree with her. Plus, if you do feel a certain way, no use twisting yourself into a pretzel trying to appease her. Most women appreciate a man with a backbone who's not afraid to express his opinion. Just don't belittle her or be an a*s about it.
If she's hot, she'll have many men puppy-dogging her so dare to be different.
BackInTheGame78
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If it was a boring date why would you want a second one? Do you need someone to help put you to sleep before bed?
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Scaramouche
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Hi Riprock,
That's one Helluva Junkyard Dog You've got there Man...Pretty well agree with you,trick is to agree with them wholeheartedly,but to still go your own way....That way you have a peaceful life and lots of Pvussy LOL.
That's one Helluva Junkyard Dog You've got there Man...Pretty well agree with you,trick is to agree with them wholeheartedly,but to still go your own way....That way you have a peaceful life and lots of Pvussy LOL.
BaronOfHair
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"Is there any way to recover from a mediocre/ bad first date?"
There is indeed. Start by not conceptualizing the date (Or anything else in life)as "Good" or "Bad". Instead, name the aspects of it that you found objectionable
There is indeed. Start by not conceptualizing the date (Or anything else in life)as "Good" or "Bad". Instead, name the aspects of it that you found objectionable
Captain Rizz
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It wasn't boring, lol. She just left sorta early fo ran incomrpehensible reason
Giovanni SouthSide
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Don’t miss the forest for the trees.
Next time, let the chick do 80% of the talking. You breeze through the other 20.
Get the girl to talk about her favorite topic-- herself.
She booked it because you probably turned her off with too much blabber.
Usually when a woman gets to talk about herself it makes her feel bonded to you. But you need to listen actively, kino, interrupt with a wild re-frame, light tease, ask open ended questions.
You will most very likely not have sex with a woman who you could not kiss on the first date.
Until you seal the deal, nothing is a spark.
If a chick does not text you after the date,
move on.
If you feel ballsy then straight up call her, get in her feelz and invite her for “netflix and chill”. or else another dude will.
Fvck it, use the last bullet in the chamber.
Next time, let the chick do 80% of the talking. You breeze through the other 20.
Get the girl to talk about her favorite topic-- herself.
She booked it because you probably turned her off with too much blabber.
Usually when a woman gets to talk about herself it makes her feel bonded to you. But you need to listen actively, kino, interrupt with a wild re-frame, light tease, ask open ended questions.
You will most very likely not have sex with a woman who you could not kiss on the first date.
Until you seal the deal, nothing is a spark.
If a chick does not text you after the date,
move on.
If you feel ballsy then straight up call her, get in her feelz and invite her for “netflix and chill”. or else another dude will.
Fvck it, use the last bullet in the chamber.
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The Duke
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I guarantee that all the signs of why she left early were there. Your lack of awareness is why you can't understand why and missed out on when the date started to get derailed. Pay more attention to body language and you will gain greater insight into what she is thinking.
Expressing yourself so strongly in regards to politics is not a topic that attracts the vast majority of women. While you were busy being passionate about your feelings regarding politics and philosophies she was tuning out.
Pick other topics next time that women find more interesting. Pay more attention to her. Let her do the majority of the talking. Your job is to lead the conversation and adjust based on non-verbal signs she displays. You want to lead her down a path she can feel connected to you.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
