IS there ANY way back?

[rjames407]

Hi guys,

Im just wondering if anyone out there has managed to develop attraction/succeed with a girl after 'jumping in with two feet' and asking her out almost straight away without creating any rapport/attraction and getting rejected.

I did this with some chic who I was in a seminar at uni with and she was 'scared off' but I withdrew my attention and she has started contacting me?

Any advice/thoughts welcome

 

[WesCottII]

I thought we've been over this?

She's not worth the time or attention. To paraphrase Rollo the time spent trying to save any "relationship" is better spent meeting new birds. This one's done.

She isn't contacting you because she wants to get in your tighty-whiteys, she's contacting you because you're simply not pandering to her demands (not sending her class notes, not falling into AFC line) and she's wondering why. The moment you either start being "mates" with her, or start playing AFC chode, is the moment she'll forget you again.

You have oneitis. Get it into your head that she doesn't want you (wether she WILL want you is un-productive to your improvement), and focus on yourself and other girls. When you've got about 3/4 on the go then this one won't seem to special, but first you have to let go of any thought of "hooking up". Being the man of your dreams is in your grasp, all you have to do is take it.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Never root through the garbage once you drag the can to the curb. You get dirty, your neighbors see you do it and you rarely find what you thought was worth digging for.

 

[PlayToWin]

Never root through the garbage once you drag the can to the curb. You get dirty, your neighbors see you do it and you rarely find what you thought was worth digging for.

AWESOME analogy, I love it, and am definiately going to steal it and use it again either on these boards or in real life.