"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is there any such thing as a "second chance"?

Cupified

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Let's say you're an AFC. You've proformed the "kiss of death" (obsessing) over a girl and thus, she calls you a stalker. Is there any hope of a "second chance" or is she gone forever?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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The less thought that you give this question, the faster you can move on and improve, which is actually the most expedient course of action.
If anything, you'll only get another "chance" when you become another person. Frankly, your best bet would be to just move on, figure out what you did wrong, and improve. Over the course of this process, you'll find that there are plenty of great girls out there.

-Damian

"The train of life always leaves the station on schedule, whether you are on board or not."
 

Phyzzle

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I'm gonna go with "gone forever".
 

JPFromTally

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Once a girl has called you a stalker it's pretty much over. Unless you don't mind a restraining order on your record.
 
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