"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is there any such thing as a "second chance"?

Cupified

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Let's say you're an AFC. You've proformed the "kiss of death" (obsessing) over a girl and thus, she calls you a stalker. Is there any hope of a "second chance" or is she gone forever?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Damian

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The less thought that you give this question, the faster you can move on and improve, which is actually the most expedient course of action.
If anything, you'll only get another "chance" when you become another person. Frankly, your best bet would be to just move on, figure out what you did wrong, and improve. Over the course of this process, you'll find that there are plenty of great girls out there.

-Damian

"The train of life always leaves the station on schedule, whether you are on board or not."
 

Phyzzle

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I'm gonna go with "gone forever".
 

JPFromTally

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Once a girl has called you a stalker it's pretty much over. Unless you don't mind a restraining order on your record.
 
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