"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is there any point to this?

Von

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I think the achievement on a man should be measured by the number of post he has on SoSuave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The reason you’re having trouble is that you’ve accomplished nothing in life and think you’re such an accomplished guy. If you were a high status guy, you’d have access to a lot of women through friends, parties, etc. but you are a loner who posts on sosuave every day.

A guy who has status has a degree from Harvard, a six or seven figure job on Wall Street, a ton of friends, and a huge house. Or an NBA player who has 5 million followers on Twitter. You’re nothing remotely close to that. So do you have work to do? Yes, you do. Since you want to bang hot women so bad, stop lying to yourself that you’re a successful real estate investoR.
I'd bet that there are a lot of such Harvard graduate men on Wall Street who have a difficult time securing poontang (i.e. aside from paying for it); it seems ridiculous, but that's the way it is. What used to be a "very eligible bachelor" is simply not quite good enough these days.
 
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I'd bet that there are a lot of such Harvard graduate men on Wall Street who have a difficult time securing poontang (i.e. aside from paying for it); it seems ridiculous, but that's the way it is. What used to be a "very eligible bachelor" is simply not quite good enough these days.
Getting a college degree isn't an impressive accomplishment. That's kid sh1t.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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