"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is there any point talking to ugly chicks

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is there any point in talking to ugly girls and just sorta working your way up the ladder....i still dont have enough confidence around the 9's and 10's. I tell myself that i do but i know i get nervous and it shows. should i work my way up or should i be doing something else? Around any girl up to HB7 I am a true DJ, but i get ****ed up when it actually counts
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Talking to ugly girls won't make it easier to talk to the hot ones. They will, however, have connections with new hot girls that you can meet. The only way you will get better at conversations is by practicing them more: the more girls you talk to the better you will get.
 
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I disagree that it wont make it easier. Its not gonna make it second nature, but it will make it easier to a second degree for 2 reasons.

1) Knowing that all the ugly chicks want you will boost your confidence.

2) It will help you practice what to say when you are flirting with a chick...


Baby steps...
 
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i don't think they're a waste of time talking to ugly chicks or what not. like one said, the more girls you talk to, doesn't matter age or how cute or ugly they are. it'll build you up so that later on in life, you can talk to anyone no matter how fine she is or not without a hiccup. because once you've talked to so many girls, you will treat them all the same which is a positive note.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ugly chicks are great for material. since they r ugly they have to have good stories etc. to keep you interessted. steal their stuff.
 
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