"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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is there any point talking to ugly chicks

kiz

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is there any point in talking to ugly girls and just sorta working your way up the ladder....i still dont have enough confidence around the 9's and 10's. I tell myself that i do but i know i get nervous and it shows. should i work my way up or should i be doing something else? Around any girl up to HB7 I am a true DJ, but i get ****ed up when it actually counts
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NYC Dude

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Talking to ugly girls won't make it easier to talk to the hot ones. They will, however, have connections with new hot girls that you can meet. The only way you will get better at conversations is by practicing them more: the more girls you talk to the better you will get.
 

Andromax

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I disagree that it wont make it easier. Its not gonna make it second nature, but it will make it easier to a second degree for 2 reasons.

1) Knowing that all the ugly chicks want you will boost your confidence.

2) It will help you practice what to say when you are flirting with a chick...


Baby steps...
 

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i don't think they're a waste of time talking to ugly chicks or what not. like one said, the more girls you talk to, doesn't matter age or how cute or ugly they are. it'll build you up so that later on in life, you can talk to anyone no matter how fine she is or not without a hiccup. because once you've talked to so many girls, you will treat them all the same which is a positive note.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Balanced

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ugly chicks are great for material. since they r ugly they have to have good stories etc. to keep you interessted. steal their stuff.
 
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