"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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is there any point talking to ugly chicks

kiz

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is there any point in talking to ugly girls and just sorta working your way up the ladder....i still dont have enough confidence around the 9's and 10's. I tell myself that i do but i know i get nervous and it shows. should i work my way up or should i be doing something else? Around any girl up to HB7 I am a true DJ, but i get ****ed up when it actually counts
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NYC Dude

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Talking to ugly girls won't make it easier to talk to the hot ones. They will, however, have connections with new hot girls that you can meet. The only way you will get better at conversations is by practicing them more: the more girls you talk to the better you will get.
 

Andromax

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I disagree that it wont make it easier. Its not gonna make it second nature, but it will make it easier to a second degree for 2 reasons.

1) Knowing that all the ugly chicks want you will boost your confidence.

2) It will help you practice what to say when you are flirting with a chick...


Baby steps...
 

t00dumb

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i don't think they're a waste of time talking to ugly chicks or what not. like one said, the more girls you talk to, doesn't matter age or how cute or ugly they are. it'll build you up so that later on in life, you can talk to anyone no matter how fine she is or not without a hiccup. because once you've talked to so many girls, you will treat them all the same which is a positive note.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Balanced

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ugly chicks are great for material. since they r ugly they have to have good stories etc. to keep you interessted. steal their stuff.
 
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