"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jay Jay

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I personally have a rule of not going after taken girls. I did that a few times when I was younger. It never worked out. I either got burned or when I did get the girl I got her + a whole lotta baggage.

But morally, I don't think there is anything wrong with stealing a girl in a bad relationship. Why should you respect a guys right to her if he treats her like ****? But once again... I wouldn't go there.

JJ
 

ThunderMaverick

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I think any Don Juan will always throw out a sexual vibe to any chick, even if he doesn't mean to. However I think any "Don Juan" who knowingly hits on a friend's chick to get her curious is displaying his desperateness;he thinks getting a chick to like him is a rare occasion. Any man who does that has very low self esteem. It's a gesture to undermine the integrity of his friend's relationship to the girl. I don't care how rocky or wonderful their relationship is.

I'm in a small situation where a good friend of mine WANTS me to take his girlfriend off his hands. He complaned a little about her and I said "why don't you let me take her off your hands?" He didn't mind in the least. I asked him a few more times just to be sure. lol I'm currently looking into it. He told me they haven't dated long and didn't have good chemestry. So hell I'll try my hand at it. As long as it's ok with him of course. If he were to say otherwise you'd better believe I'd eject myself out of that scenario fast! XD
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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ducaro said:
does a Don Juan or a good man hit on other guys girls??
If you get a b*tch to cheat on her BF, chances are if you become romantically invelved... she'll do the same thing to you.

Pmp n' Dump. (theres no limit on the pumping) Is the motto you want to use with hos like this.
 

persiangino

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Soooo many girls cheat on their bf's it's not even funny. Relationships seemingly don't exist anymore especially at a young age, so I say fukce'm and leave.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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