"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay Jay

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I personally have a rule of not going after taken girls. I did that a few times when I was younger. It never worked out. I either got burned or when I did get the girl I got her + a whole lotta baggage.

But morally, I don't think there is anything wrong with stealing a girl in a bad relationship. Why should you respect a guys right to her if he treats her like ****? But once again... I wouldn't go there.

JJ
 

ThunderMaverick

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I think any Don Juan will always throw out a sexual vibe to any chick, even if he doesn't mean to. However I think any "Don Juan" who knowingly hits on a friend's chick to get her curious is displaying his desperateness;he thinks getting a chick to like him is a rare occasion. Any man who does that has very low self esteem. It's a gesture to undermine the integrity of his friend's relationship to the girl. I don't care how rocky or wonderful their relationship is.

I'm in a small situation where a good friend of mine WANTS me to take his girlfriend off his hands. He complaned a little about her and I said "why don't you let me take her off your hands?" He didn't mind in the least. I asked him a few more times just to be sure. lol I'm currently looking into it. He told me they haven't dated long and didn't have good chemestry. So hell I'll try my hand at it. As long as it's ok with him of course. If he were to say otherwise you'd better believe I'd eject myself out of that scenario fast! XD
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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ducaro said:
does a Don Juan or a good man hit on other guys girls??
If you get a b*tch to cheat on her BF, chances are if you become romantically invelved... she'll do the same thing to you.

Pmp n' Dump. (theres no limit on the pumping) Is the motto you want to use with hos like this.
 

persiangino

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Soooo many girls cheat on their bf's it's not even funny. Relationships seemingly don't exist anymore especially at a young age, so I say fukce'm and leave.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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