"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is there a way to come back from the "You are just a really good friend line"??

MiKe23

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I am 16. I fell for this girl who is my age. We would talk on the phone and hang out and stuff and id use all of the methods that were said on here, She has never had a boyfriend and many of her friends say she is shy. So, after months of talking to her and going out places with her I took her in person and told her my feelings. She told me that all I was to her was a "really good friend" I couldve swore this girl had feelings for me! I really really like this girl. Now shes all I think about sometimes. IS THERE SOMEWAY TO COME BACK FROM THIS??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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ahhh dude coming on a little strong? stop thinking about her and start meeting other girls. she says ur just really good friends, tell her you have enough friends and that u've got to go. that or u can just say okay. just dont let it seem like it matters to u. u dont care. ur a don juan, it says so right under ur name.
 

MiKe23

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wow I guess im screwed then...This is terrible
 

Jerky Boi

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Yes. Not screwed. You just went about it all wrong. No challenge, no mystery, no amusement in her life, it doesn't matter what the hell you do, she's not going to be interested. Just tack this one up as a loss and move on.
 
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