"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is there a way to come back from the "You are just a really good friend line"??

MiKe23

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I am 16. I fell for this girl who is my age. We would talk on the phone and hang out and stuff and id use all of the methods that were said on here, She has never had a boyfriend and many of her friends say she is shy. So, after months of talking to her and going out places with her I took her in person and told her my feelings. She told me that all I was to her was a "really good friend" I couldve swore this girl had feelings for me! I really really like this girl. Now shes all I think about sometimes. IS THERE SOMEWAY TO COME BACK FROM THIS??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem

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ahhh dude coming on a little strong? stop thinking about her and start meeting other girls. she says ur just really good friends, tell her you have enough friends and that u've got to go. that or u can just say okay. just dont let it seem like it matters to u. u dont care. ur a don juan, it says so right under ur name.
 

MiKe23

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wow I guess im screwed then...This is terrible
 

Jerky Boi

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Yes. Not screwed. You just went about it all wrong. No challenge, no mystery, no amusement in her life, it doesn't matter what the hell you do, she's not going to be interested. Just tack this one up as a loss and move on.
 
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