I am 16. I fell for this girl who is my age. We would talk on the phone and hang out and stuff and id use all of the methods that were said on here, She has never had a boyfriend and many of her friends say she is shy. So, after months of talking to her and going out places with her I took her in person and told her my feelings. She told me that all I was to her was a "really good friend" I couldve swore this girl had feelings for me! I really really like this girl. Now shes all I think about sometimes. IS THERE SOMEWAY TO COME BACK FROM THIS??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is there a way to come back from the "You are just a really good friend line"??
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