"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is there a thing as teasing too much?

tryst type

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Was just at a pub with friends and we were approached by three women, one of my friends was laying the teasing on thick.

Wasn't answering any questions kept making up answers.

She seemed into it but at same time it felt like it was way too much and she walked off saying "you're too much."

Did he build interest or annoyance?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FairShake

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You can definitely tease and play around too much.

If a woman is tells you how crazy you are, how much of a "mess" you are, how you're too much, etc. more than once in a conversation you need to be a little less weird.

If they are laughing and continuing the conversation without calling attention to you (instead of your comment) you are doing fine.

Women, when out and about, can be pretty forgiving if you pick up on their cues.
 

tryst type

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It appeared like he was trying to get attraction over and over while at the same time she was trying to get some rapport.

She seemed into it and said he was funny but I'm curious if he blew it by constantly trying to have a funny/witty response.

Also she would jump around from him to me to two of my other friends. I teased subtly which got her wanting to "take it outside" and playfully strangled me.

When my friend teased she just kept trying to pry for real answers and only touching she did was lift his sleeve to look at his tattoo.
 

zekko

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This is why I'm not fond of the PUA advice; "Never give a woman a straight answer". Then they usually suggest a C&F response. I mean maybe I could get behind that if it was "Only give a straight answer 20% of the time" or something like that. But never is a bit much.

Like Mike says, at some point you want to be able to have a normal conversation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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VladPatton

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Too much of ANY technique will become annoying and transparent.
 

iamnobody

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Teasing too much makes you come off as a try hard and insecure. Balance is the key to teasing.
 
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