"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is there a stigma around asian women with white men....?

TheMonkeyKing

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I bumped in to a pretty hot asian online, so I've asked her out. She's got a touch of the Lucy Liu about her, who is one of my top 10 of all time...

I always though there is a bit of stigma around this for some reason, something about the Thai bride culture.... any thoughts?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheMonkeyKing said:
I bumped in to a pretty hot asian online, so I've asked her out. She's got a touch of the Lucy Liu about her, who is one of my top 10 of all time...

I always though there is a bit of stigma around this for some reason, something about the Thai bride culture.... any thoughts?

Some may hold this stigma, personally I don't. I do my best not to judge others nowadays.

At the end of the day though, it only matters what you think, nobody else. Maintain an alpha mind set.
 

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switch7 said:
At the end of the day though, it only matters what you think, nobody else. Maintain an alpha mind set.
An alpha mind set means nothing if you don't have the natural qualities of being a true alpha.
 

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Octogonal said:
An alpha mind set means nothing if you don't have the natural qualities of being a true alpha.
What are the natural qualities of an alpha in your opinion?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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keep it real I judge cause Asians are in general culture vultures, its annoying the end up with the most dorky unattractive white men lol, don't care cause I dont find asian women attractive at all
 

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Young OG said:
I dated a hot Asian in my early 20s. People used to look at us weird in public. Asian guys would look all pissed off at me and stare lol.
haah its worse in Asia if you walk around with a hottie. Guys don't like seeing women of their race with men of anothe race.

In the US, I've dated latina ladies, black ladies, asian ladies. Gotten weird looks from men of all those races. I'm mixed too so I look somewhat asian, at times hispanic. The stares and comments really go up when Im with a black girl. Whether from black people or for some reason white girls, who give out these venomous glares for some odd reason.
 

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Depends right.

In the UK there is the 'Thai bride' and 'couldn't get a white girl so he got an Asian'

I used to live in SE Asia and there's a massive view from other expats that the guys who get with asians couldn't get the expat girls etc
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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