"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is there a stigma around asian women with white men....?

TheMonkeyKing

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I bumped in to a pretty hot asian online, so I've asked her out. She's got a touch of the Lucy Liu about her, who is one of my top 10 of all time...

I always though there is a bit of stigma around this for some reason, something about the Thai bride culture.... any thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing said:
I bumped in to a pretty hot asian online, so I've asked her out. She's got a touch of the Lucy Liu about her, who is one of my top 10 of all time...

I always though there is a bit of stigma around this for some reason, something about the Thai bride culture.... any thoughts?

Some may hold this stigma, personally I don't. I do my best not to judge others nowadays.

At the end of the day though, it only matters what you think, nobody else. Maintain an alpha mind set.
 

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switch7 said:
At the end of the day though, it only matters what you think, nobody else. Maintain an alpha mind set.
An alpha mind set means nothing if you don't have the natural qualities of being a true alpha.
 

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Octogonal said:
An alpha mind set means nothing if you don't have the natural qualities of being a true alpha.
What are the natural qualities of an alpha in your opinion?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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keep it real I judge cause Asians are in general culture vultures, its annoying the end up with the most dorky unattractive white men lol, don't care cause I dont find asian women attractive at all
 

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Young OG said:
I dated a hot Asian in my early 20s. People used to look at us weird in public. Asian guys would look all pissed off at me and stare lol.
haah its worse in Asia if you walk around with a hottie. Guys don't like seeing women of their race with men of anothe race.

In the US, I've dated latina ladies, black ladies, asian ladies. Gotten weird looks from men of all those races. I'm mixed too so I look somewhat asian, at times hispanic. The stares and comments really go up when Im with a black girl. Whether from black people or for some reason white girls, who give out these venomous glares for some odd reason.
 

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Depends right.

In the UK there is the 'Thai bride' and 'couldn't get a white girl so he got an Asian'

I used to live in SE Asia and there's a massive view from other expats that the guys who get with asians couldn't get the expat girls etc
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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