Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there a "sister" forum like this site, except with females?

Vice

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Just wondering, I'd like to sign up on one of those sites and get the female perspective on things.

You know, like a female "Don Juan" board?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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its called Cosmo magazine.

"how to make him fall in love in 10 days" and that sort of crap.

We are just now learning to play catch up on what they have been learning since day one.
 

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Yeah, but I can't exactly interact with women that read Cosmo.

Actually, I'll check out the Cosmo website, maybe they have a forum...
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My god, these girls are B*TCHES!!

You know that routine in the Sex section of the DJ Bible? Well I asked the girls what they thought of my version of it.

I suppose that some of them have trouble reading... I have to specifically point them to parts of my thread to get them to read it again because they were twisting my words.
 
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They arent lying though in my opinion they are just confused little girls. They don't want to feel like they are being put under a routine, but it will work on them 99% of the ****ing time. Thats why they talk about Spontaneity. They want this all to happen to them with the right person and you can't convey to them over a forum that your not some sex deprived geek just posting something to get girls reactions.

Its a waste of time imo, its like arguing with the pope to convert to satanism. Its not gonna happen they wont see our way and it works better for us :up:
 

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Heh, some funny stuff on both those sites.
 

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Someone make a new thread and end it with MOOOO!!!

I wager they'll all repeat it.
 

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Sorry bro that just sounded pathetic. It's now what you said (actually there was some pretty lame stuff) but it was the way you said it. And why all the details? What was the point of all that??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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