"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is there a "sister" forum like this site, except with females?

Vice

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Just wondering, I'd like to sign up on one of those sites and get the female perspective on things.

You know, like a female "Don Juan" board?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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its called Cosmo magazine.

"how to make him fall in love in 10 days" and that sort of crap.

We are just now learning to play catch up on what they have been learning since day one.
 

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Yeah, but I can't exactly interact with women that read Cosmo.

Actually, I'll check out the Cosmo website, maybe they have a forum...
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My god, these girls are B*TCHES!!

You know that routine in the Sex section of the DJ Bible? Well I asked the girls what they thought of my version of it.

I suppose that some of them have trouble reading... I have to specifically point them to parts of my thread to get them to read it again because they were twisting my words.
 
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They arent lying though in my opinion they are just confused little girls. They don't want to feel like they are being put under a routine, but it will work on them 99% of the ****ing time. Thats why they talk about Spontaneity. They want this all to happen to them with the right person and you can't convey to them over a forum that your not some sex deprived geek just posting something to get girls reactions.

Its a waste of time imo, its like arguing with the pope to convert to satanism. Its not gonna happen they wont see our way and it works better for us :up:
 

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Heh, some funny stuff on both those sites.
 

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Someone make a new thread and end it with MOOOO!!!

I wager they'll all repeat it.
 

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Sorry bro that just sounded pathetic. It's now what you said (actually there was some pretty lame stuff) but it was the way you said it. And why all the details? What was the point of all that??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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