"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is there a rule that says you shouldn't text a girl late at night before sleeping?

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If I'm trying to convey an image that I have options and am out with girls every night, is it unwise to reply to a text message from a HB late at night before sleeping?

She replied after an hour but I've been guilty of lacking options and it shows. I need to reign in my behavior.

I wasn't sure if there's a rule about this, I want her to think I'm out with a girl so I dont know if me replying at 11.30pm at night is going to show this, like if i was getting laid I wouldn't be sending a text at that time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1 step forward, 2 steps back. google it if you don't know what I'm saying.

reply the next day if you really want to.
 
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pdx1138 said:
1 step forward, 2 steps back. google it if you don't know what I'm saying.

reply the next day if you really want to.
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I guess then that's a no for tonight. I'll send the reply tomorrow morning.
 
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Double edged sword.

1) Being the last thing on her mind when SHE'S in bed isn't bad at all.
2) It shows she's the last thing on yours.

Play it by ear.
 
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It depends on how the texting is going. If you're having a good chat or escalating, then keep it up, otherwise ease off a bit.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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texting late night shows you have no options. you want to have a female wondering what or who you are doing at night. the only text i would ever send a woman after 10pm is "come over now"
 
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