Is there a rule that says you shouldn't text a girl late at night before sleeping?

[big weezy]

If I'm trying to convey an image that I have options and am out with girls every night, is it unwise to reply to a text message from a HB late at night before sleeping?

She replied after an hour but I've been guilty of lacking options and it shows. I need to reign in my behavior.

I wasn't sure if there's a rule about this, I want her to think I'm out with a girl so I dont know if me replying at 11.30pm at night is going to show this, like if i was getting laid I wouldn't be sending a text at that time.

 

[pdx1138]

1 step forward, 2 steps back. google it if you don't know what I'm saying.

reply the next day if you really want to.

 

[big weezy]

1 step forward, 2 steps back. google it if you don't know what I'm saying.

reply the next day if you really want to.

I guess then that's a no for tonight. I'll send the reply tomorrow morning.

 

[prairiedog24]

Double edged sword.

1) Being the last thing on her mind when SHE'S in bed isn't bad at all.
2) It shows she's the last thing on yours.

Play it by ear.

 

[Jariel]

It depends on how the texting is going. If you're having a good chat or escalating, then keep it up, otherwise ease off a bit.

 

[J Roc]

texting late night shows you have no options. you want to have a female wondering what or who you are doing at night. the only text i would ever send a woman after 10pm is "come over now"