"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is there a right way to approach a girl you haven't seen in years?

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eps

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There's a girl from my senior year of high school who I haven't seen in a couple of years. I didn't realize it until about a month ago, but she had a huge interest in me in high school. We're now both seniors in the same college.

I just got her email address from an acquaintance of hers.

Is there a right way to say hi to her? Should I bother to try to explain how I got her email address?

Anyone have experience in this type of situation?

Any help is appreciated,

-Eps
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The only thing I can say is don't get your hopes too high. She may have had a crush on you several years ago, but things change over time.

All I can say is don't assume that she still likes you if you decide to contact her.
 
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RE:

Just shoot her an email and keep it simple, direct and fun. Problem solved.
 
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Unfortunately I don't have her phone number, and even more unfortunately is that I sent the email to a Hotmail account.

I have a feeling my mail will be marked as a spam mail for some reason since it's Hotmail.

Then again, I didn't make my message about penis enlargement, so I might be okay, but I'm not 100% sure, heh.

If she says something like "my boyfriend and i are doing great" THEN I will redirect her to a penis enlargement website.

I'm starting not to even give a flying f*ck about this.

Thanks guys,

-Eps
 
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