"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is there a right way to approach a girl you haven't seen in years?

eps

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There's a girl from my senior year of high school who I haven't seen in a couple of years. I didn't realize it until about a month ago, but she had a huge interest in me in high school. We're now both seniors in the same college.

I just got her email address from an acquaintance of hers.

Is there a right way to say hi to her? Should I bother to try to explain how I got her email address?

Anyone have experience in this type of situation?

Any help is appreciated,

-Eps
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sapphire

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The only thing I can say is don't get your hopes too high. She may have had a crush on you several years ago, but things change over time.

All I can say is don't assume that she still likes you if you decide to contact her.
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

Just shoot her an email and keep it simple, direct and fun. Problem solved.
 

eps

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Unfortunately I don't have her phone number, and even more unfortunately is that I sent the email to a Hotmail account.

I have a feeling my mail will be marked as a spam mail for some reason since it's Hotmail.

Then again, I didn't make my message about penis enlargement, so I might be okay, but I'm not 100% sure, heh.

If she says something like "my boyfriend and i are doing great" THEN I will redirect her to a penis enlargement website.

I'm starting not to even give a flying f*ck about this.

Thanks guys,

-Eps
 
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