"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DidIDoThat

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I was reading a few of the "quick tips" and one triggered my memory.
A couple of months ago I got this girl back to my place she was on her period (genuinely was ) so we didn't Fvck but while we were kissing ect, I drunkenly called her by her sisters name TWICE. So a month later she messages me she was in a bar and I was already out so I go to the bar she's at and brings up me calling her my her sisters name then withing 5 minutes she's straddling me sulking my face off saying "could (sisters name do this)" "I'm better than her aren't i?"

Just asking if me accidently saying that triggered her to prove herself to me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was reading a few of the "quick tips" and one triggered my memory.
A couple of months ago I got this girl back to my place she was on her period (genuinely was ) so we didn't Fvck but while we were kissing ect, I drunkenly called her by her sisters name TWICE. So a month later she messages me she was in a bar and I was already out so I go to the bar she's at and brings up me calling her my her sisters name then withing 5 minutes she's straddling me sulking my face off saying "could (sisters name do this)" "I'm better than her aren't i?"

Just asking if me accidently saying that triggered her to prove herself to me?
Yes. Deep down sisters hate eachother.
 
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