"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DidIDoThat

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I was reading a few of the "quick tips" and one triggered my memory.
A couple of months ago I got this girl back to my place she was on her period (genuinely was ) so we didn't Fvck but while we were kissing ect, I drunkenly called her by her sisters name TWICE. So a month later she messages me she was in a bar and I was already out so I go to the bar she's at and brings up me calling her my her sisters name then withing 5 minutes she's straddling me sulking my face off saying "could (sisters name do this)" "I'm better than her aren't i?"

Just asking if me accidently saying that triggered her to prove herself to me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading a few of the "quick tips" and one triggered my memory.
A couple of months ago I got this girl back to my place she was on her period (genuinely was ) so we didn't Fvck but while we were kissing ect, I drunkenly called her by her sisters name TWICE. So a month later she messages me she was in a bar and I was already out so I go to the bar she's at and brings up me calling her my her sisters name then withing 5 minutes she's straddling me sulking my face off saying "could (sisters name do this)" "I'm better than her aren't i?"

Just asking if me accidently saying that triggered her to prove herself to me?
Yes. Deep down sisters hate eachother.
 
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