"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is there a "Rate my GF" thread?

Phazuka

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Maximus Rex said:
How do you have maintain a relationship when your not even on the same continent as your girlfriend?
It's difficult but not impossible. We usually meet somewhere in Asia every 3-4 months for a week or two. She'll be here in the US soon, hopefully.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Berlex

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Phazuka said:
Can I start one? You're welcome to post pics of your GF too.

Of course I would rate my GF a 10 but dat's just me.

I give her an 8...I wacked off to her picture too
 

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^^An 8? Way too generous my man. You just wanna act like she is more attractive because you wacked off to her. She's a 6.
 

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Phazuka said:
Can I start one? You're welcome to post pics of your GF too.

Of course I would rate my GF a 10 but dat's just me.

I give her a 3. Seriously, I didn't need to see that picture early in the morning. All I hear in my head is, "I give you sexy show for two dollar. Two dollar I give sexy show. Two dollar only. You take?"

Poor skin, old looking, poor chin, slutty American woman pose, flip-flops...uh...wtf? she is already in America.
 

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Berlex said:
I give her an 8...I wacked off to her picture too
I'm hoping that this was a joke but this is why there isn't a rate my gf thread
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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belividere said:
I'm hoping that this was a joke but this is why there isn't a rate my gf thread
You don't know half the story. Even money says that more than one dude on here wacked off while thinking about Berlex wacking off.
 

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Dude, all the Ukrainian girls I know here walk around with that "slutty American" posture perpetually. Must be something about our global hor-gemony.

Luckily the world still has a bastion of elegance and femininity in the former Soviet Union.
 

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Dude, all the Ukrainian girls I know here walk around with that "slutty American" posture perpetually. Must be something about our global hor-gemony.

Luckily the world still has a bastion of elegance and femininity in the former Soviet Union.
So you live in Seattle or Ukraine? Immigrants are Americans or want to be Americans. If you got some and actually visited you would see that there the typical Ukraine girl has NOTHING in common with the typical American girl.

Immigrant Eastern Europeans are screwed up big time. Last time I even say that. Nothing worse than a displaced female from a place like Ukraine. Talk about a bad attitude. Avoid them like poison.
 

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sparky0000 said:
I give her a 3. Seriously, I didn't need to see that picture early in the morning. All I hear in my head is, "I give you sexy show for two dollar. Two dollar I give sexy show. Two dollar only. You take?"

Poor skin, old looking, poor chin, slutty American woman pose, flip-flops...uh...wtf? she is already in America.

Actually, her skin is flawless. :moon:
 

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belividere said:
I'm hoping that this was a joke but this is why there isn't a rate my gf thread
Eh, I thought it was funny. I'm not going to get jealous or something, lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sparky0000 said:
So you live in Seattle or Ukraine? Immigrants are Americans or want to be Americans. If you got some and actually visited you would see that there the typical Ukraine girl has NOTHING in common with the typical American girl.

Immigrant Eastern Europeans are screwed up big time. Last time I even say that. Nothing worse than a displaced female from a place like Ukraine. Talk about a bad attitude. Avoid them like poison.
I lived in Germany for 4 years when I was in the Army. There's a reason for the word EUROTRASH. Some of these eastern European girls make American trailer trash look classy. That's why I prefer Asian women. They're elegant, classy, conservative, family oriented, submissive and know how to please their man outside the bedroom.
 

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sparky0000 said:
I give her a 3. Seriously, I didn't need to see that picture early in the morning. All I hear in my head is, "I give you sexy show for two dollar. Two dollar I give sexy show. Two dollar only. You take?"

Poor skin, old looking, poor chin, slutty American woman pose, flip-flops...uh...wtf? she is already in America.
rofl, dude that's harsh
 

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seanchai said:
Dude, all the Ukrainian girls I know here walk around with that "slutty American" posture perpetually. Must be something about our global hor-gemony.
Gold... even if the idea of a hor-gemonic culture is a little unsettling.
 

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sparky0000 said:
So you live in Seattle or Ukraine? Immigrants are Americans or want to be Americans. If you got some and actually visited you would see that there the typical Ukraine girl has NOTHING in common with the typical American girl.

Immigrant Eastern Europeans are screwed up big time. Last time I even say that. Nothing worse than a displaced female from a place like Ukraine. Talk about a bad attitude. Avoid them like poison.
I'd like to meet some non-immigrant Ukrainians because the immigrants really don't do it for me.

I live in Seattle. Are you Ukrainian? Where did you learn the language (I assume you speak it if you pick up while over there)?
 

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Theres always going to be a sl*t in any culture. :)

I do like my classy women though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This thread and the thread starter is PATHETIC... wow it's so Don Juan to brag or compare Gfs isn't it? Why do you care what other ppl think? Are you that insecure with yourself. I'm pretty sure you asked your girlfriend that your going to post a picture of her on this site right? lol kids these days are so whipped.

"Insecure guys get girlfriends so they can show off and brag to their friends." David Delangelo
 

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CCKazi007 said:
This thread and the thread starter is PATHETIC... wow it's so Don Juan to brag or compare Gfs isn't it? Why do you care what other ppl think? Are you that insecure with yourself. I'm pretty sure you asked your girlfriend that your going to post a picture of her on this site right? lol kids these days are so whipped.

"Insecure guys get girlfriends so they can show off and brag to their friends." David Delangelo
I'd give her a 6 just to be nice and she's actually in shape and has a decent sixpack, no offense but when I went to Thailand I saw a lot of girls who looked like that.
 

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I'd give her a 6 just to be nice and she's actually in shape and has a decent sixpack, no offense but when I went to Thailand I saw a lot of girls who looked like that.
Nice reversal. :)

I'm not trying to brag or anything. We've been together now a year and a half so I'm not insecure or jealous. I think the comments are funny and the intended purpose of starting conversation appears to have worked.
 

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Lol yes there is a "Rate My GF" already... I got it in the High School forum and it's locked unfortunately :p Hmm kind of different but never mind...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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