"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
is there a girl-version of this site?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
spesmilitis
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penkitten
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Actually "The Rules" is a great read for any aspiring DJ. For starters its short and you can get the e-book pretty cheap at Amazon.com. However the best thing about it is that if you gives you a female perspective on the dating game.spesmilitis said:
One of the my favorite David DeAngelo quotes is "You have to learn to give yourself permission." When I read "The Rules" I learned that women are just as, if not more, hung up on the dating game than we are. Now the truth is that I was constantly reminded of this while reading material geared towards us, however by reading from a female perspective I actually got a chance to see it.
The only concern I have about guys reading this book is that they might start to play therapist. Don't play therapist with a girl unless your planning on using her as a pivot sometime in the near future. Better yet, try to avoid playing therapist altogether unless a good friend or girlfriend is going through a tramatic experience.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.