“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
is there a girl-version of this site?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Actually "The Rules" is a great read for any aspiring DJ. For starters its short and you can get the e-book pretty cheap at Amazon.com. However the best thing about it is that if you gives you a female perspective on the dating game.spesmilitis said:
One of the my favorite David DeAngelo quotes is "You have to learn to give yourself permission." When I read "The Rules" I learned that women are just as, if not more, hung up on the dating game than we are. Now the truth is that I was constantly reminded of this while reading material geared towards us, however by reading from a female perspective I actually got a chance to see it.
The only concern I have about guys reading this book is that they might start to play therapist. Don't play therapist with a girl unless your planning on using her as a pivot sometime in the near future. Better yet, try to avoid playing therapist altogether unless a good friend or girlfriend is going through a tramatic experience.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.