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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is the term "trophy wife" used as a shaming tool?

MatureDJ

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I was reading an article about Rupert Murdoch's wife, in which she is called a "trophy wife." It seems to be that this is nothing more than yet another shaming tool by the matriarchy to make a powerful mature man look like a fool for having such a young wife.

http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2011/07/wendi-murdoch-tiger-wife-201107

Of course, as an earlier thread has mentioned, this one is a good bodyguard as well.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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LeftyLoosey

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Spot-on. I never really thought of it that way. I think it's also used to shame the relationship in general - it implies a financial/status based arrangement rather than one founded on "love."

Frankly, a wealthy man married to an attractive woman is just how it should be!
 

Paintballguy

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Oh no, this hot woman wants me because of my status and wealth!! The horror!!

People who make those accusations are just jealous. That is what it comes down to.
 

Knight's Cross

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Trophy Wife......So what do we call Ashton?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Burroughs

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ALL women are attracted to wealth and power...

thing is...the women who label other women 'trophy wives' are women whose husbands are run of the mill ordinary. If Rupert was interested most women would gladly spread their legs, everyone has a price
 

Zunder

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A term used by jealous overweight bytches whom almost all without fail would jump at the chance to be a "trophy- wife" to some rich and/or famous dude if they didn't weigh 180 with an arse the size of texas.
 
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