"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is the "sexless marriage" the ultimate beta submission?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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'Evolution'.

I have actually pondered this open relationship concept. People talk about how they have 'transcended' jealousy and contempt and whatnot, and how they can pretty much just love whoever the hell they want without any judgment, and that they just want their other partner to be happy.

The problem is, you cannot evolve past what nature has already coded for you in your genes. I have realized that with this particular mindset, there is a reason why it is not natural inherent behavior in people (just like everything else).

Let's say you have children. If everyone had that mindset, then only the mothers would care for their babies and the fathers would not care at all. Now the children all die, and the population is depleted because there are no more humans. But some people may believe in humanity enough that if EVERYONE had the mindset of the people in the link above, then everyone would care for one another.

Not so. The reason for this is because it is a universal law of nature that all living organisms strive to conserve energy (you tend to live longer doing this anyway which puts you in favor of natural selection). Well because EVERY LIVING BEING ON THE PLANET abides by this rule, then it is safe to say that it is not worthwhile to raise a child whom may not be yours. And we inherently know this too.

You should not evolve beyond what evolution has in store for us. It could mean catastrophe.
 

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Most married people are in sexless marriages so this is not news
 

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Most married people are in sexless marriages so this is not news
Yep, they lost the spark, so they both agreed using new age language and feel good mantra, to cheat on each other…
 

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shoot me now!o_O
 

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'Evolution'.

I have actually pondered this open relationship concept. People talk about how they have 'transcended' jealousy and contempt and whatnot, and how they can pretty much just love whoever the hell they want without any judgment, and that they just want their other partner to be happy.

The problem is, you cannot evolve past what nature has already coded for you in your genes. I have realized that with this particular mindset, there is a reason why it is not natural inherent behavior in people (just like everything else).

Let's say you have children. If everyone had that mindset, then only the mothers would care for their babies and the fathers would not care at all. Now the children all die, and the population is depleted because there are no more humans. But some people may believe in humanity enough that if EVERYONE had the mindset of the people in the link above, then everyone would care for one another.

Not so. The reason for this is because it is a universal law of nature that all living organisms strive to conserve energy (you tend to live longer doing this anyway which puts you in favor of natural selection). Well because EVERY LIVING BEING ON THE PLANET abides by this rule, then it is safe to say that it is not worthwhile to raise a child whom may not be yours. And we inherently know this too.

You should not evolve beyond what evolution has in store for us. It could mean catastrophe.
Dude what are you talking about?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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These days, marriage is usually an act of desperation.

Its too stupid to be anything else lol.
LOL!!!!!

A man today wanting to get married is a form of mental illness. Any man that wants marriage has already demonstrated though his desire for marriage, that he is emotionally and mentally incapable of making decisions, so the act should be null and void due to incompetence.
 

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LOL!!!!!

A man today wanting to get married is a form of mental illness. Any man that wants marriage has already demonstrated though his desire for marriage, that he is emotionally and mentally incapable of making decisions, so the act should be null and void due to incompetence.
Well said.
 

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The problem is, you cannot evolve past what nature has already coded for you in your genes. I have realized that with this particular mindset, there is a reason why it is not natural inherent behavior in people (just like everything else).
the unique ability of the human being is to not be ruled totally by their biology, humans do biology defying things all the time
 

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the unique ability of the human being is to not be ruled totally by their biology, humans do biology defying things all the time
But not with reproduction. That’s something you cannot change. Just because someone can cut their **** off and get surgery to have a vagina placed their instead doesn’t mean they’re a woman now
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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