Is the revenge f@$k worth it?

[slikkmeister]

So I have this girl who I could probably revenge bang if I want too. She ljbf me 2 years ago and I went NC on her. Have seen her socially and I usually just blow her off. I'm respectful but dismissive at the same time. I try to be a gentlemen, but I feel like I kind of owe her one if you know what I mean... I know it's not her fault, she's the worse AW I've ever met. Daddy issues, BPD,(yes, real BPD, prescribed medication for it and therapy). Anyone else ever done this? Is it worth it? I'm not looking for judgement, and I won't pass any either! I'm going to do, what I'm going to do, regardless of anyone else. I just haven't made up my mind yet if it's worth pursuing.

 

[sodbuster]

Is the sex going to be worth it???? take the revenge out of it

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

BPD's are sexual creatures. Could be worth it. The key with this one: Don't get attached. You may be able to keep her as an FB but BPD's are hard to figure out, and to keep to any type of schedule, or their word for that matter. Once you get going with her she may start to do stupid $hit like hit you up for a booty call, then once you commit.... flake, that kind of crap. Once she starts playing her succubus games you'll have to abort. Be ready for it.

Know what you're getting into, as it seems like you do, and you should be okay.

 

[Knight's Cross]

BPD's are known to go Stage 5 Clinger when you beat them at their own game. So if you do hit that and leave it, expect her to do the jealous ex girlfriend subroutine. That can include driving by your place, stopping by unannounced, ridiculous e-mail, call, and text drama. If you are cool with that, then proceed. If you don't want that anymore steer clear of her.
I'd rather spin more plates than go back to easy to hit tail.
KC

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I vote no.

There seems to be too much potential negative feedback for just one lousy lay.

Things like this only seem like a good idea before you do them. Afterwards (at least in my case) they don't seem such a good idea in retrospect.

Especially if you see this girl around. You don't want no BP making up all kind of stories (that could potentially get you put in jail) if she mixes in her BP (and whatever else you say she has) with feelings of post-coital blow-off.

Turning her into an FB, on the other hand, with some up front "no strings" verbal agreements is something else.

Then again, she might knife you in the eyeball while you're sleeping or something.

 

[zekko]

I vote no.

I agree with this. Although the PUA community tries to downplay it, sex is a serious business. You could impregnate the girl or get an STD. I just wouldn't want to mess around with something like revenge in this kind of arena. Seems like bad karma.

 

[slikkmeister]

All good advice. I think I just had a momentary lapse of reason. You know how it is, you think with your **** instead of your brain. I'm gonna leave her alone. Definitely not worth the headache later. And, if I got her pregnant I'd effin shoot myself!