"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is the problem of "guys obviously can't judge attraction levels very well" solved by presuming that any woman being chaste with him has low interest?

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I had a different post, and a commenter made the comment in quotes, and it got me thinking. I have pretty much lived by this rule for quite some time, although sometimes I find myself straying, especially when in a dry rut. :mad::mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A woman can be chaste with you at first meeting you but later warm up to you. It means nothing.
If your referring to cold approach on the street. Its quickly turning into a creepy thing by media and the liberal agenda and very well may be an arrest able offence in 10 years.
No, I mean after a few months. :mad::mad::mad: I have tended to get dumped around that time, and women that have wanted to sex me will sex me earlier than that.
 

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Im Not liberal but it is creepy to approach women who dont want to be approached. Alot of pickup is done in idle until a girl gives you the nod and then its on. You won't be getting kicked out of shopping malls or clubs if you follow this advice. Also you look good since your hooking up with chicks not getting rejected.


A woman can be chaste with you at first meeting you but later warm up to you. It means nothing.
If your referring to cold approach on the street. Its quickly turning into a creepy thing by media and the liberal agenda and very well may be an arrest able offence in 10 years.
 
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