"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is the practice of Western men dating foreign women abuse?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tictac
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I find that western women who are younger (18 to mid 20s) are too heavily influenced by mainstream culture's image of giving up your body however you want to whoever you want (99% of today's music is all about hookups). Not really my cup of tea because if there's any chance of them having a feminine core, there's so much garbage on the outside for me to filter through that it's not even worth it for me to pursue.
Most women who are in their late 20s and older are most likely overweight and show great signs of aging. I actually have female orbiters who are in this age bracket, but I have absolutely zero attraction to any of them. The girls who are in their early to mid 30s (who haven't bought into the feminist prerogative [which is rare], but who aren't cute enough for you to wanna f*ck) are sometimes cool to talk to though.
Foreign women (mostly Asian in my experience) are usually fit up until they're about 40+. Right now, I've got this Korean MILF who's all over me that works out regularly (37 y/o). Her body really isn't that bad, despite strange stomach flaps that you see on older women. The only problem with her is that she's got extreme emotional issues because of her age and she knows that her sexual value is declining quite rapidly.
I know of plenty 40+ Asian women that are extremely beautiful. They take care of themselves because they know how important it is to keep their SMVs high, despite already being married.
Women who are interested in you that are the same race as you will definitely feel jealous. I am of half Filipino and half Chinese descent and one of my Filipino co-workers (having moved from the Philippines only a few months ago) has voiced out that she feels betrayed that I only go for Chinese girls.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
EG girlfriend wanted to see me twice a week now. So I negotiated a study buddy night. I go round to her place she cooks dinner and we study. She understands the value of Education and the need to keep up with the competition in your profession. Imagine trying to sell that to a euro girl
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taiyuu_otoko
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oranges think it's unfair that people buy apples without taking the time to appreciate the value oranges have to give.
And many oranges think that apple eaters are all butt hurt doosh bags.
Whatever.
Scaramouche
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Scaramouche
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So glad all your hard work has paid off...They are lovely Ladies...To the great unwashed they are inconsiderate in the extreme...Cross the Rubicon and become"Family",they will do anything for you!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.