"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is the practice of Western men dating foreign women abuse?

MatureDJ

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The Western women interviewed seem to think so!

my opinion: This is not abuse at all and these (mostly fat) women just don't like the competition. :down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oOh Nasty

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Last time I dated a natural born American woman was about 6 years ago.

I find that western women who are younger (18 to mid 20s) are too heavily influenced by mainstream culture's image of giving up your body however you want to whoever you want (99% of today's music is all about hookups). Not really my cup of tea because if there's any chance of them having a feminine core, there's so much garbage on the outside for me to filter through that it's not even worth it for me to pursue.

Most women who are in their late 20s and older are most likely overweight and show great signs of aging. I actually have female orbiters who are in this age bracket, but I have absolutely zero attraction to any of them. The girls who are in their early to mid 30s (who haven't bought into the feminist prerogative [which is rare], but who aren't cute enough for you to wanna f*ck) are sometimes cool to talk to though.

Foreign women (mostly Asian in my experience) are usually fit up until they're about 40+. Right now, I've got this Korean MILF who's all over me that works out regularly (37 y/o). Her body really isn't that bad, despite strange stomach flaps that you see on older women. The only problem with her is that she's got extreme emotional issues because of her age and she knows that her sexual value is declining quite rapidly.

I know of plenty 40+ Asian women that are extremely beautiful. They take care of themselves because they know how important it is to keep their SMVs high, despite already being married.

Women who are interested in you that are the same race as you will definitely feel jealous. I am of half Filipino and half Chinese descent and one of my Filipino co-workers (having moved from the Philippines only a few months ago) has voiced out that she feels betrayed that I only go for Chinese girls.
 

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they find it a abuse? good so mens really should keep doing it
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ubercat

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My tastes are quite well known here. The idea that this is abuse is hilarious. We all know that an ltr goes much better if the male is at least 1 smv point above the female. That's easier to achieve with an immigrant woman. So it's actually the nature of woman that drives this trend. From my point of view it's less overhead so I have more time to get on with my purposes in life.

EG girlfriend wanted to see me twice a week now. So I negotiated a study buddy night. I go round to her place she cooks dinner and we study. She understands the value of Education and the need to keep up with the competition in your profession. Imagine trying to sell that to a euro girl
 
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taiyuu_otoko

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WTF?

oranges think it's unfair that people buy apples without taking the time to appreciate the value oranges have to give.

And many oranges think that apple eaters are all butt hurt doosh bags.

Whatever.
 

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Dear Ooh Nasty,keep fit till 40+?...Let me tell you,I have a plate who is 68,a Chinese,Fvucks like a rattler,Stomach flaps?...Noo way..Fit?you betcha,still doesn't need lubricants for the dastardly deed!
 

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Dear Uber,
So glad all your hard work has paid off...They are lovely Ladies...To the great unwashed they are inconsiderate in the extreme...Cross the Rubicon and become"Family",they will do anything for you!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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