"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is the movie "How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days" the ultimate statement about women?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Agreed. I had a gf once who was infatuated with this movie. B|tch lead me on and toyed with my emotions so hard, then dumped me for a woman.
 

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Serious??? Because ONE woman did x it automaticly categorizes all women? I think you need to get out of your head a little more often and away from sosuave. I think this place is getting to your head a bit too much.

Epi
 

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Why would take one single movie as "the ultimate statement"? That doesn't make any sense. Well, if it was the arthouse flick of the century maybe, but a Hollywood romcom? Come on. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When they make movies, they always have a target audience. In general, when people watch movies, they imagine that it's them as the protagonist.

Porn is for guys who like jacking while pretending it's them. Action movies are for dudes who like to pretend they are alphas. Martial arts movies are for guys who imagine they're Bruce Lee.

Romantic comedies are for girls who like to imagine they're attractive enough and have enough self confidence to do whatever the "alpha girl" does in the movie.

Which means in real life, they don't. Nor would they likely want to. It's a brief, two hour fantasy. Most normal people know that.

I'm actually glad there are movies like "How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days."

It's a great way to "test" a girl in the first couple dates:

"I was flipping around on Netflix last night and I saw that 'how to lose a guy in ten days' movie. Pretty funny. You seen it? What'dya think?"

If you need some reassuring, there's ALWAYS tons of good, real life opinions on movies and their characters over at IMDB.com, and thankfully, most girls and guys think characters like that are nutjobs.
 

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They all do it. They did it thousands of years before that movie and they will continue to do it thousands of years afterwards. They test you. Unfortunately, a chair in one hand and a whip in the other are frowned upon in this day and age.

Well, unless leather/rubber suits and ball gags are involved.
 

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They can keep their damn movie. I'll keep idolizing Kevin Spacey in American Beauty.
 
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