"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is the movie "How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days" the ultimate statement about women?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Agreed. I had a gf once who was infatuated with this movie. B|tch lead me on and toyed with my emotions so hard, then dumped me for a woman.
 

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Serious??? Because ONE woman did x it automaticly categorizes all women? I think you need to get out of your head a little more often and away from sosuave. I think this place is getting to your head a bit too much.

Epi
 

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Why would take one single movie as "the ultimate statement"? That doesn't make any sense. Well, if it was the arthouse flick of the century maybe, but a Hollywood romcom? Come on. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When they make movies, they always have a target audience. In general, when people watch movies, they imagine that it's them as the protagonist.

Porn is for guys who like jacking while pretending it's them. Action movies are for dudes who like to pretend they are alphas. Martial arts movies are for guys who imagine they're Bruce Lee.

Romantic comedies are for girls who like to imagine they're attractive enough and have enough self confidence to do whatever the "alpha girl" does in the movie.

Which means in real life, they don't. Nor would they likely want to. It's a brief, two hour fantasy. Most normal people know that.

I'm actually glad there are movies like "How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days."

It's a great way to "test" a girl in the first couple dates:

"I was flipping around on Netflix last night and I saw that 'how to lose a guy in ten days' movie. Pretty funny. You seen it? What'dya think?"

If you need some reassuring, there's ALWAYS tons of good, real life opinions on movies and their characters over at IMDB.com, and thankfully, most girls and guys think characters like that are nutjobs.
 

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They all do it. They did it thousands of years before that movie and they will continue to do it thousands of years afterwards. They test you. Unfortunately, a chair in one hand and a whip in the other are frowned upon in this day and age.

Well, unless leather/rubber suits and ball gags are involved.
 

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They can keep their damn movie. I'll keep idolizing Kevin Spacey in American Beauty.
 
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