"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

is the method of communication important ?

badboyjmm

badboyjmm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2010
Messages
420
Reaction score
44
Location
Canada
I was friendzoned by my oneitis when I went to visit her. So I decide to stop talking to her (NC basicslly) 1 month and I didn't get a reply or nothing.

Then I decided to send her a message: happy birthday. Nothing more nothing less. She has repond saying thanks. The thing is, she sent me a message on my timeline asking if I had anything plans for my birthday coming up in a few days. Its been a week and I havent responded. Like in my opinion if the girl was sincere about knowing my whereabouts for my birthday, she could call, text, even set a private message but she did it on the open on Facebook.

Should I keep the no contact or communicate to her ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

R

rhythmic

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 5, 2012
Messages
212
Reaction score
13
If she calls, texts or messages, after you didn't respond, she knows she'll come off as needy, which she will try to avoid.

You really need to make yourself more clear - the point of NC is to get over someone. Do you want to get over her? If so, start again, counting from the day after when you messaged her happy birthday, and don't break this time.

It sounds like she was just making small talk, which girls are of course wont to do. Maybe her social circle is a bit dry and she's fishing for an invite to any big birthday night out you have planned. But since she "friendzoned" you once already I'd have to advise just going through with NC and getting busy with other things.
 
badboyjmm

badboyjmm

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2010
Messages
420
Reaction score
44
Location
Canada
rhythmic said:
If she calls, texts or messages, after you didn't respond, she knows she'll come off as needy, which she will try to avoid.

You really need to make yourself more clear - the point of NC is to get over someone. Do you want to get over her? If so, start again, counting from the day after when you messaged her happy birthday, and don't break this time.

It sounds like she was just making small talk, which girls are of course wont to do. Maybe her social circle is a bit dry and she's fishing for an invite to any big birthday night out you have planned. But since she "friendzoned" you once already I'd have to advise just going through with NC and getting busy with other things.
Click to expand...
I guess you are right, I'm trying to get over her and I feel better about the whole situation. I guess she want it to be even because I wish her happy birthday... It's still a break of NC and I'm not proud of it. She probably doesn't really care about me, so I will ignore.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top