"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is the Hitch ideaology possible?

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Outofexile

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From the movie Hitch. Not the idea of slinging women with lines but finding one you really want and going after her. In the movie, it was said any man can get any woman. Now Im not talking about crazy ideaology like the fat guy landing the heiress but like real world possibilities?

Basic DJ principles say if you approach and limited interest to move on, much more fish in the sea type thing. But what if you found someone and you really wanted to get with her? Not just in a sexual way but in a relationshipal way? I know that this site is dedicated to get in, get off, and get out but what if thats not your thing anymore? What if you really do just want to meet a good girl and maybe, just maybe, you have found her but the issue is acquiring her?

Does the put it on the line thing ever work? Does the sincere guy ever get the W or is it always a failure?

I cant help but believe that not all women are attracted to the badboys. Now Im not talking about the 9s or 10s with the playmate bodies and Im not talking about the fast time stunners we all know of. Im talking about your normal, decent woman that might actually have the qualities to be more than a trophy girlfriend.

What do you think, do you have to DJ even the decent ones ALL the time or can you just come out and be open without falling on your face?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Every girl is a "good girl" if she believes you are the right man for her.

And yes, girls that are not attracted to badboys are out there, too.
 
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