"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is the Hitch ideaology possible?

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Outofexile

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From the movie Hitch. Not the idea of slinging women with lines but finding one you really want and going after her. In the movie, it was said any man can get any woman. Now Im not talking about crazy ideaology like the fat guy landing the heiress but like real world possibilities?

Basic DJ principles say if you approach and limited interest to move on, much more fish in the sea type thing. But what if you found someone and you really wanted to get with her? Not just in a sexual way but in a relationshipal way? I know that this site is dedicated to get in, get off, and get out but what if thats not your thing anymore? What if you really do just want to meet a good girl and maybe, just maybe, you have found her but the issue is acquiring her?

Does the put it on the line thing ever work? Does the sincere guy ever get the W or is it always a failure?

I cant help but believe that not all women are attracted to the badboys. Now Im not talking about the 9s or 10s with the playmate bodies and Im not talking about the fast time stunners we all know of. Im talking about your normal, decent woman that might actually have the qualities to be more than a trophy girlfriend.

What do you think, do you have to DJ even the decent ones ALL the time or can you just come out and be open without falling on your face?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Every girl is a "good girl" if she believes you are the right man for her.

And yes, girls that are not attracted to badboys are out there, too.
 
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