"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is the Hitch ideaology possible?

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From the movie Hitch. Not the idea of slinging women with lines but finding one you really want and going after her. In the movie, it was said any man can get any woman. Now Im not talking about crazy ideaology like the fat guy landing the heiress but like real world possibilities?

Basic DJ principles say if you approach and limited interest to move on, much more fish in the sea type thing. But what if you found someone and you really wanted to get with her? Not just in a sexual way but in a relationshipal way? I know that this site is dedicated to get in, get off, and get out but what if thats not your thing anymore? What if you really do just want to meet a good girl and maybe, just maybe, you have found her but the issue is acquiring her?

Does the put it on the line thing ever work? Does the sincere guy ever get the W or is it always a failure?

I cant help but believe that not all women are attracted to the badboys. Now Im not talking about the 9s or 10s with the playmate bodies and Im not talking about the fast time stunners we all know of. Im talking about your normal, decent woman that might actually have the qualities to be more than a trophy girlfriend.

What do you think, do you have to DJ even the decent ones ALL the time or can you just come out and be open without falling on your face?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every girl is a "good girl" if she believes you are the right man for her.

And yes, girls that are not attracted to badboys are out there, too.
 
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