Is the highschool mindset considered a challenge?

[iMat]

I've noticed in high school that people are pretty tight-knit, and dating and relationships usually happen between friends of friends etc.

Simply approaching a random teenager at a mall or something freaked me out (I froze up), but before I go at it again (hopefully with a little more balls than before), doesn't it creep them out too?

Does the whole cold approach or even the subtle hints work on someone with highschool intellect (meaning not a lot at all)?

--iMat

 

[MarcP]

It depends on the way you approach.

If you approach and seem nervous/freaky then they probably will freak out. But if you approach and your confident then they're going to enjoy being approached by you. You shouldn't be worried about whether they're freaked out or not anyway.

 

[jonny football hero]

Personally, i don't approach random chicks on the street. The way i figure it, would i want to be stopped and talked to? answer: no.

Therefore i changed my game, Shop assistants, waitresses women giving out flyers became my targets. i found them easier to approach as, initially, that is what they are paid for. Then i take it from their and end up with #'s.

As for your question, i feel that highschool girls are attracted by looks (more so that regular girls) and having good intelligence matters **** all.

 

[Nocturnal]

Mat, don't worry about it too much. The best thing to do is to wait for a good situation to present itself (don't be too picky though). If you and some girl are in the same place and neither of you are really preoccupied with something else, it's all good.

And Johnny, it's a lot harder to read people when they're paid to be friendly. I'm sure you know that though .

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by iMat
I've noticed in high school that people are pretty tight-knit, and dating and relationships usually happen between friends of friends etc.

Simply approaching a random teenager at a mall or something freaked me out (I froze up), but before I go at it again (hopefully with a little more balls than before), doesn't it creep them out too?

Does the whole cold approach or even the subtle hints work on someone with highschool intellect (meaning not a lot at all)?

--iMat

This is true, but your aim is to build up independent social proof outside of your clique in school. It might creep them out a little, but it will also (whatever they say, unless they are super arrogant) make them feel good about themselves. This is because it makes them feel wanted and all girls want to be wanted (i asked one girl out and she said no, but please dont stop loving me because it makes me feel nice, what the hell?). Which is why the opinions of others matter a hell of a lot to girls, which is why social proof becomes important in school.