Dhoulmagus
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Comparing a girls actions to if she were with brad pitt or the other way around. Would you flake on Beyonce or something.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is so true. Once you have banged a girl, the power shifts and she can't (and doesn't) have the power over you anymoreZarky said:It's sort of like passing the ultimate sh*t test right off the bat. Once a girl has spent time on her knees with your **** in her mouth, all other sh*t tests are fairly easy to pass unless you get lazy.
Sure she does if you want to bang her again, but she just wants to jump on the next guy's c0ck. You'll find that a lot with chicks from POF but really anywhere.Mr_Stinky said:This is so true. Once you have banged a girl, the power shifts and she can't (and doesn't) have the power over you anymore