"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is the brad pitt/Channing tatum test to harsh

Dhoulmagus

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Comparing a girls actions to if she were with brad pitt or the other way around. Would you flake on Beyonce or something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-1 for horrible spelling and retarded hypothetical question.
 

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For certain questions, if you have to ask, you may already know the answer.
 

Who Dares Win

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Men are not sheep minded as women, we are attracted from a woman because of her qualities not because a large group of people worship her.

Any 20yrs cute waitress would get much more attention than sharon stone or melanie griffin anyday, hardly a cute waiter would get more attention than from girls than johnny depp or george clooney.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not sure about Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum, but I've found that I attract loyal, loving b*tches when I ensure that I only go out multiple times with chicks who f*ck me on the first date. You'd think that these chicks would be big cheaters but I've found that this is not the case. The (few) girls who cheated on me in the past were ones who were so uninterested that they would not sleep with me in the first few dates.

It's less about worrying what she would do with a celebrity, and more about making sure that she doesn't see me as a guy who will play the provider role. "Nexting" any chick who doesn't bang me on the first date ensures that she understands right from the start that I'm not playing the "Alpha fux, beta bux" game as the beta ;)

It's sort of like passing the ultimate sh*t test right off the bat. Once a girl has spent time on her knees with your **** in her mouth, all other sh*t tests are fairly easy to pass unless you get lazy.
 

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Zarky said:
It's sort of like passing the ultimate sh*t test right off the bat. Once a girl has spent time on her knees with your **** in her mouth, all other sh*t tests are fairly easy to pass unless you get lazy.
This is so true. Once you have banged a girl, the power shifts and she can't (and doesn't) have the power over you anymore
 

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Mr_Stinky said:
This is so true. Once you have banged a girl, the power shifts and she can't (and doesn't) have the power over you anymore
Sure she does if you want to bang her again, but she just wants to jump on the next guy's c0ck. You'll find that a lot with chicks from POF but really anywhere.
 
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