is the beta male theory wrong or I just got a perfect girl?

Mahmudul Hasan

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I act like a beta to her but she doesn't talk to other boys for me. I act like a beta but still she doesn't want favors from me and don't want me to waste my money. today we were walking together and she had a heavy bag which i offered to carry on for her but she didn't let me. there was too much mosquitos where she sat and she was getting annoyed so i offered to exchange seats but she didn't let me because she didn't want me to get bitted by mosquitos.
 

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one thing I see as true is that what a girl says and what she means are not same. I don't know if meanings are same as words or not but her feelings are not same as words. if she says she is not sad but i can see sadness on her face, this is not something you need a book to understand but rather basic human interaction experience to understand
 

Mahmudul Hasan

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You're 20.

There is a 99% chance this relationship will not last and you'll experience what dating is REALLY like once you have to start talking to other women.
I think i am sure that it will last because I will marry her
 

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I act like a beta

You act like a beta? Take women out the equation for now. You need to work on your mindset first. Read books on leadership. Tighten up and see how much your game improved.
 

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Pretty sure things are much different in the muslim culture, especially if it's a really traditional environment. He can act whatever he wants.
 

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Pretty sure things are much different in the muslim culture, especially if it's a really traditional environment. He can act whatever he wants.
yeah alpha games and stuffs like that are probably needed in western culture Or I just got a perfect sweet girl
 

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I do think the beta male/alpha male shvt is extremely exaggerated. Women will cheat on beta men for alpha men and women will cheat on alpha men for beta men.
 

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Depending on your location and cultural background you might get away with being a "beta".

That said, you better start leading in this relationship, even if its more comfortable to just let her free roam.

Life is not about comfort and going the easy path. Letting your future wife call the shots in your relationship might bite you in the azz down the road.
 

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I'm assuming your Indian so things are probably a bit different in your culture

Make no mistake if she is exposed to Instagram / Western cultures enough you will start to see issues
 
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